Who is right and who is not...?

It was blustering evening. So, I decided to watch the movie “Life in Metro” in my newly purchased DVD player. Though the movie was very good and showed the new ways of people having and managing their relationships - The bitter truth of this Fast life of metro cities. Truly speaking, the movie left me with some question marks in my mind. And I never leave any question unanswered in my life.

Well, this time I wouldn’t do any commentary but will come directly to the point. In the movie, I watched the mam (I don’t the remember her name) who must be 60+ living in old age home, because of stupid son, having relationship with Dharmendhar singh who was also of her age. Their respective spouses were deceased long before. Well, their relationship had very good inception. A inception which can lead to successful relationship. They both started loving each other. Yes Loving and planned to live together. So coming to the point, My stupid mind poked up a question. “Hey Avi…!!! Is this relationship acceptable to you? What do you think about it?” I was wondering my mind is asking me what I think. WoW. (God, Will this mind ever allow me to watch any movie peacefully…

The thing I want to represent over here is what about their past life experience hindrance in their new life. Considering they both had a pretty good life and relationship with their legal spouses. So, wouldn’t the memories of their past love tease them. I know, I shouldn’t use the word “past love” over here. But sharp person will get that. So, I am still unable to answer this question. Because my both parts of brain are in serious contention. Let me represent the arguments of my both hemisphere (two parts of brain). Right hemisphere (RH) is in favor of this relationship and Left (LH) one has adopted the opposite path. Let’s see how they are arguing:

LH :- How can they form a new relationship…I mean in this age?

RH :- Don’t tell me… We are in 21^st century and you still think in this way

LH :- So wat? Let me tell you I think they both are doing wrong thing. It is unacceptable in society.

RH :- Stop it!!! What is this society? To hell with this society. Does this society provide the livings to them. Did this society help them when they needed them most

LH :- Okz….leave the society. But what about their own self-esteem? Doesn’t it matter? I mean how would they both feel when they’ll see the picture of their respective spouse in future? May be I wouldn’t able to face that.

RH :- hmmmmm……..point. But Left hemisphere, my brother, if one is gone from our life then we should stop our life over there. Here gone is not a break-up. And this gone is not our hands. I think if they feel good with each other they should go for it.

LH :- It isn’t about the feel, Right hemisphere. Its about the loyalty. Okz here is the point I want to make. They both are going to give each other the position which they had given to their resptive husband and wife. I mean come on. At this age. No way. By the way, did their deceased spouses left them on their own will.

RH :- Good point….but my lovely brother Love has no age.

LH :- Okz…. But it is re-love. I know there isn’t any word in dictionary like this. But this is the point I want to make, its not love damn. They had loved someone and now this. I wouldn’t call this love at all.

RH :- Okz…. I think I have to defend my argument scientifically. Do you remember the word emotional securance in Crook’s theory of behavioral psychology.

LH :- Yeah..?

RH :- This is what they are doing. Don’t be emotional yaar. Sometimes, few things are out of the bounds.

LH :- okz…….agreed..!!!... tell me one thing then don’t they embarrassed their own love (past love) by doing this. What they must be feeling… Using the psychology theory of facing the stress. They must have adopted the Avoidance Oriented Strategy?

RH :- I don’t want to agree but yeah they must have. And they should be. I know what you are saying is right according one’s principles, according to social and moral values. But yaar, Humans are not made for these rules but these rules are made for humans. So Why we always consider these things above human's happiness.

LH :- Hmmmm……. But still yaar I think they will be emotionally satisfied and will get their senses back (Emotional Securance phase completed, Mature phase starts : Crooks theory). They will lament. How will you defend that lamentation then?

So, you must have noticed the arguments. They both have made unable to make a conclusion. So, I need your help. Tell me who is right and who is not but with answer of WHY?